YOUR OWN PROBLEMS?

Do you have problems? Yes, I have, right? Even everyone have their own problems. Not only you and me, many people around you which seems to be so happy and cheerful. You can't see through them because they hide it so well inside their bottom of the heart. You don't even know them properly because you just see what they show you, just the outside. I know there are many people who just hide every problem from there friends, family,etc. Why is that? Are you afraid or something or maybe you are very insecure about it? 

Everyone have their own problems and the different ways to solve them. But mostly people like it to struggle it alone, but why, what makes them like that? The answer is they are very insecure , afraid to tell it to someone else, don't know how to express it, have so much thoughts in their mind which confuses them that what are they actually feeling at that movement, they are not able to make out what is going on with them or they just blame themselves that why are they like that, etc. These are not enough reasons but mostly reason are like that only. I have this problem that I am not able to express it correctly to anyone, even if i try people are just so puzzled it their own problems, not have anytime to listen to me. I know I can understand but still at least give sometime to other people whom you love. Some have very critical issue and on the other hand for some frivolous issues they make them the big deal. At least try to differ between these thing. People say you'll never understands me, I say its a complete truth even I used say all that stuff to everyone who wants to know me or come closer to me. These are just excuses to run away from your problems or maybe you just want that person to not feel guilt about that he/she was not there in your hardest times.  But you know what, it just give you the negative feeling that no one there to understands you and things like that which gives you the negative thoughts. This negativity will leads you to unhappiness, and this unhappiness will slowly kills you from inside making it lonely, anxiety, depression, many things like that will target you mental and physical health .

Problems are everywhere but the thing is how you handle that situation. Maybe till now you are not able to handle that situation or not ready to face the real world. That's okay, you don't have to be ashamed because everyone have their own speed of learning maybe some are so good in everything and few are terrible. I'll tell you that it's gonna be fine. Who are terrible at things maybe have extraordinary power to change the world you just have to believe in your self and your believes, you'll  will get it very soon or later just keep trying.

Just like many famous people who changed the world ALBERT EINSTEIN, EDVARD MUNCH, ISAAC NEWTON, ERNEST HEMINGWAY, our own MR. BEANS. You can read about them you'll get to know what are the real problems are. I not comparing your problem and theirs I know maybe that thing is too much to handle for you but always remember: 
" YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE WITH THE PROBLEMS, THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO HAVE MUCH CRITICAL PROBLEMS THAN YOU"
when ever you feel like that you can't handle it, or so sad about something just repeat this thing is your mind. It can give you so much of power to endure your problems.

Problems have very vast varieties, if you go through it you'll understand. Problems is not not one thing it includes many things like mental and physical health, moods, habits, your personality, your vibes, etc. It could be anything like I suffer from kind of insomnia, my mom thinks I'm faking it but it's not true I don't know why it is like that I don't have a answer to it because I'm don't have any knowledge on this thing. It's kinda new to me so I have go through it, it's not like anyone will come and suffer to it, NO it's you who have to suffer through it, if you have strong will you'll be on the top. It's you who have to go through not me, not anyone else. Don't beg to someone, if he/she wants to help he/she will after giving any hint to them they will surely help you who are real people around you. Not any fake person, that person is their just to use you not to help you. Understand the meaning between who are your real friends and who are there to just to use you. In this world it could be a beautiful world or a cruel world for you. You should have the knowledge to separate the different types of people into different categories, it's the cruel truth of this world. I'm not saying this to offend anyone but it is important nowadays when people come as your friends or anyone and tends to use you and push you away. You have to be so open so that you can easily survive in with your problems.
It will totally change your life. You can do anything you want but don't do something that will hurt someone. There is difference in mistakes and intentional willing. Mistakes are thing that can be forgiven. Its is made by unintentionally and by not knowing the consequences. But intentional willing mistakes are on such a high level which I don't can be forgiven. People do these things for their greed and to achieve it they are ready to go off limits, crossing the line and stepping into their personal spaces is worse then ever. Sometime people create the problem for you, bringing  you into their troubles and blame it all upon you to be on a safer side. These people have a habit to do these things again and again. Maybe because of their various reasons. I have no right to say it but its not a good thing to blame it upon you your problems or troubles. I am that person who end up taking all the problems and troubles on to me and always try to forgive everyone who did something bad to me. You know its hard to do it. Every night I say I forgive everyone who did something bad to me and go to sleep but it hard. I am not able to sleep it just keep on going and going, having the flashback of those painful memories. But it's always easy to blame but it's hard to claim it or taking responsibility for what you have done.

It's better to forgive than having a revenge back. Problems are just small things which makes you stronger and helps you to survive. Learning from mistakes are better than regret them. Life is too short for any problems and mistakes. JUST LIVE EVERYDAY AS IF IT'S YOUR LAST. YOU'LL ENJOY YOUR EVERYDAY. DO WHATEVER YOU WANT. ENJOY EVERY MOVEMENT OF YOUR LIFE.