Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing themselves!
Something bad happens to us we blame onto other things like situations (or makes up excuses) or the world, "that is world is like that, that's why these things happened to me". We all are like that not only me but almost all people. We never take it on to ourselves. Human nature is same everywhere even if they look different or speak different languages or have different cultures. We all are same but we don't admit just because we see them as their outer appearance, not by their true nature. We all have different personality, appearances, mindset and qualities, right? The way we see the world is different too, right?
The world we live in is different for everyone, but the world is same. Read it carefully again. Why is that? We all live on same earth but we all see this world in different views and angle. That is called mindset. If we see world as some cruel and nasty place it will be like that for you, and if we see it as some gifted thing it will be like that. That means things happen to us is our responsibility. What we do or think revert back to us. Like my experience I was bullied, I ask myself why? The reason which I may think is that I didn't like the place where I was, I hated it, so it took to some experience which I ended up hating it more. Simple. If I would have think of it as a good place, maybe I would have never ended up like that but that's okay. It was a lesson for me after all, which I understand it after many years. I took responsibility of what happened to me, don't take it in a wrong way. But yeah that is the truth. And then when I learned from it, I think of changing my self for good.
We can never change a person if that person don't want to change. We should change our self first to bring changes in our lives. We can not inculpate people, situations or make any excuses for things that we wanted to do it but can not able to do it because IF YOU WANTED TO DO THAT THING YOU SHOULD HAVE ALREADY STARTED DOING IT THE MOVEMENT YOU THINK ABOUT IT. It's not people or anything which stops you it you who is too afraid to try new things or want to go out of your comfort zone. Change starts from within you. IT ALL WITHIN YOU. We can't change the world just saying or posting things on social media. If we want change that change will starts within you to changing the world. We can't sit back if someone or everyone says that you can't do it. Use it as power to prove it that this is what you are and you can be the change. Problems will come on every step that you will take. Obstacles are the way or the directions to your change or success. We need obstacles to learn things that we didn't know. They are the pathways. They make you stronger and shapes you to became something that always wanted it to be.
I want to discuss something important to find the solution to your obstacles. When others have problems we easily give them the solutions. But when that problem came on to us we don't know what to do, right? Isn't it relatable? We get confused what to do, how to do? Why is that? Because we stuck to the problem. We trap our self in the problem section not in the solution. To figure it out we have think of it. Stop our self to revolve around the problem. Better think about the solution without being biased. Whenever the me, my, etc came that become a biased solution. Think of what could benefit you and your surrounding with that solution. Maybe it can not be right every time but it could be a lesson after all. We learn from the mistakes we do. Don't be afraid of making mistakes, actually there are no such things like mistakes only lessons to learn or success. That's what my mom says. I think it is very much applicable. This what makes you grow and help you change yourself. Sometimes it may take time to heal from some terrible incidents but you will heal eventually. It depends on you how much time you take. But you will heal, don't loose hope just in between. There is this quote
DON'T REST IN MIDDLE, REST IN THE END
It will always be worthy to work your ass off to get where you wanted to be. At that point you can enjoy the life that you wanted. But I'll say don't stop at that point too, make a new another goal, keep on improving through out the journey. Find people who are smarter than you. Learn from them. Keep on going and expanding your knowledge, share with them. I'll say what you share only 5% or 10% people will understand it and will apply it. Achieving greatness is no big deal. You have inspire people by your change to change the another person and that person will inspire another person. This chain will go on. Eventually we'll have some changes. Bringing change starts from oneself. To change our self for the good and world around you will start to change too. It's all a play of our mind and our ways of thinking about the things. Taking responsibly of things that we do or happen to us. It's us, our choices that will happen to change the world around you.
THE CHANGE IS YOU
And think of what you can do about it? How will you change? What will you do? It is your wish to change or not. Nobody will come and change it for you.
THANK YOU.
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